It’s here!

I wait for this day all summer.

I’ve done all the looking about, all the planning and screening.

Decisions and selections have been made.

I watch for the UPS man like a teenager in love.

When he finally arrives I am giddy.

Our curriculum for next year is finally here!

We will be starting second, fourth and sixth grades at our kitchen table.

I know just what to expect, but the kids are getting a glimpse of what they will be studying for the first time. It’s like going to open house the week before school starts and getting to see your classroom for the first time. Except maybe better.

Once again, I did the obligatory (for me) checking other curriculums. But I knew in my heart we would stick with Sonlight. The literature-focused, “living books” approach is a perfect fit for my family. We are using Core E this year, the second of a two-year American History course. Last year we began with pre-historic America and ended with westward expansion. This year we will pick up where we left off and zoom clear into modern history.

Something new I am trying this year is supplementing some of our other learning with the Critical Thinking program. Shooter helped me make selections from their catalogue, including “Editor In Chief” and “Critical Thinking In US History” for his studies. We are also giving Teaching Textbooks a go for our fourth and sixth grade math.

I am determined to do a better job of including science experiments and art projects this year, and have a new schedule in mind. Once a week, we will perform science experiments three times a month and art projects once a month. I picked up a great art projects book for a pittance at the used curriculum fair in May and have already selected our nine projects. I copied the projects from the book, filed them and included the materials needed with each file in a box. I’m beginning the same process now with science experiments.

So excuse me while I get back to shelving these beautiful new books and thrilling at the sounds of binders rings snapping together and staples ca-chunking.

August will be here before we know it and I want to be ready!

Do you have school-age children, and if so, have you begun to think about the start of the new year yet?

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What a difference: WIWW

Last week I participated in ‘What I Wore Wednesday” over at The Pleated Poppy. It was so fun! I know I’ve admitted to my vanity numerous times, but this sharing of wearing has been so fun. If you didn’t click over last week, please take a second to do so now. Her linkup is filled with awesome bloggers talking about what is happening in their lives – it is so much more than what we are wearing. Thanks again to Tracy at Sellabitmum for linking up to this so I could happen upon it.

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It feels a lot like what my friend Amy told me once, “That is NOT vanity, Jessica. That is keeping yourself up; there is a difference!”

And she is right. I actually took a few minutes to *choose* outfits last week because I was eager to link up again this week. I intentionally accessorized! I wore jewelry and clothing I love, I tapped into my deep clearance purse collection, and I spent the week feeling capable and adult.

Seriously, people, it’s the small things!

This week:

Not sure what I was going for with my hair...

This outfit included my retired running sneakers, the sequined John Deere shirt I found on a clearance rack for $6 (I know!), a fabulous leather belt (Carhartt) which also came off a steep clearance rack (I don’t remember the price for sure but I know it was single digits) and shorts I bought two years ago in desperation when I finally took the baby weight off and had no summer clothing. Of course they are from Kohl’s (xo Kohl’s I love you).

Glad I looked good while I was changing my flat tire...

I was SO happy I was wearing sneakers – I imagine it’s difficult to fix a flat in flip-flops.

I had two super-cute outfits on Thursday and Friday, I was making use of some oldies-but-goodies that I haven’t pulled out of the closet in years…but the pics are fuzzy. We are also having a hard time finding a good place to take the pictures; stay tuned on this.

On Saturday I had a dinner and movie date.

The conversation and I were* both* sparkling.

This is another single-digit clearance shirt from Kohl’s. The jeans are Cello brand and I found them on clearance for less than twenty bucks in Atwoods when I was actually purchasing farm supplies. The boots are Double-H lace ups that I’ve had for years. The little hand bag is Candy’s ($3 – clearance of course). Again, frustration with out-of-focus pictures because the jeans are heavily rhinestoned on the back pockets and I wanted to show you that…

Here is my Church outfit:

I wish you could see the shoes!

A repeat of “My entire outfit is from Kohl’s clearance and cost less than $50.” I’ve had these pants (MyMichelle) for years and love them. The shirt (iZByer) is new this spring and I’ve gotten tons of mileage from it: I wore it for Easter vigil, two dinner meetings, a band concert, a date night, and church. Clearance purse (Dana Buchman) and shoes (Apt 9) which are skinny high-heels with a strappy back. The big deal with this outfit was the opportunity to wear my birthday jewelry; my parents gave me a sapphire bracelet! And they had no idea my sister was giving me a sapphire ring!

I highly recommend turning 35.

On Monday I met my mom halfway between my house and hers (about 110 miles for each of us to drive) to pick up one child and drop off another. In the summer they spend a few days all by themselves with Grammy and Grandad.

This is what I wore.

Another all-clearance-all-Kohl’s outfit, except this one is under $25 total. The shoes are new from Target and were only 30% off but I heart them.

And this is what I wore to the water park yesterday after reading MODG’s tankini rant.

$20 swimsuit from Old Navy. No, they didn't have the one MODG is looking for.

Other than the two days when my underage photographers came up with out-of-focus pics (and of course I was in too much of a hurry to check) that is my week in clothing. Boring but clearance-y.

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Crunchy hair and other crunchy things.

At the beginning of the summer, I posted about ridding my home of the cosmetic products that were high in toxins and carcinogens.

I was really concerned about finding replacements for my deodorant, my acne treatments, and of course my make up (in that order).

A happy surprise was that my deodorant (Secret solid unscented) was rated quite good! So I’m still swiping my pits with the same thing I started using clear back in the 19-hundred-and-somethings.

An unhappy surprise included our sunscreens, our toothpaste and our bar soap. These have been easily replaced, even the toothpaste!

Most of you know I have been experimenting with crunchy hair, here are some new before/after photos, this time with strait hair:

Here I am at the start of the day, right after styling.

I didn’t use any products (aside from my flat iron) and I brushed once in the middle of the day.

Here I am at the end of the day, after taking the kids to the water park. It held up great!

I currently have no plans to go back to using shampoo and conditioner. I’ve been so pleased with the texture of my hair using this method, and I think it is continuing to improve as my hair detoxifies. All three children are now voluntarily sporting crunchy hair as well.

The biggest news flash I have for you concerns make up. I’ve fought for years now with finding makeup that my face doesn’t react to. I’ve tried most any brand of makeup you can buy whether over the counter, from your girlfriend’s kitchen table or off an infomercial (Mmm-hmm, oh yes I did). The only one that didn’t make my eyelids break out in weepy hives was physicians formula…but I could only wear it a few days a week, and I had to wear the mascara on special occasions only. Too many days in a row and my skin was peeling and flaky (gross, I know!).

I went make up shopping at our local whole-foods type store. There was a huge selection. I took my iPhone with me and used the EWG website to find the ratings on the cosmetic products (I was surprised how many there were on the shelves with poor ratings!). I am especially pleased with the ZUZU products I purchased: Concealer, lipstick, mascara. I purchased Larenim pressed powder and I’m happy with it as well. These items are pictured in the bottom of the photo below.

My new crunchy product line-up.

The top left is the moisturizing face cream I bought in place of what I’ve been addicted to for three years now. It’s made by Weleda, and is nice, smells good and doesn’t make my face sting though it’s not as fabulous as my toxin filled anti-aging stuff (which I gave away and will not buy anymore). The top right is samples of eyeshadow and blush as well as a nail polish from Honeybee Gardens. I love the eyeshadow and blush and I’ve ordered full size of those, but the nail polish (while beautiful) is not meant for people who garden and do dishes every day. I had chips by the 24-hour mark though I followed the directions to the letter for proper curing.

You can see me wearing all the makeup I mentioned in the first picture of this post. (Obviously. I’m even wearing lipstick!)

I can’t believe the difference in my face since changing to 0 or 1 rated products from the EWG site. I don’t itch or sting, I don’t have rashes or flakes, my eyes don’t hurt or sting. I can wear this makeup every single day and have been doing so for a month now! I’ve been washing my face with good-for-me bar soap and in place of all the acne treatments I was using I have just been making a quick mask of baking soda and water. Though I still have had breakouts this month, they have been lesser and faster to heal.

I’m still on the lookout for a good nail polish – I’ve noticed that the lighter colors are rated better as a large generalization. Let me know if you have any suggestions!

In the mean time, I feel good about having so much success with this experiment and assuring you all how easy it has been to switch my family over to safer products (ignore the soap, deodorant and shampoo my husband is using – he is resistant to change and that’s okay).

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What I Wore for My Birthday

I apologize for my recent neglect of this space; we had a lovely Father’s Day weekend and have been stocking up on family time since harvest ended. Coming Attractions: I have posts planned to update you on what has been happening on the farm, as well as a crunchy hair and product update.

Yesterday was my thirty-firth birthday. I must tell you, it was the best birthday I have ever had (with the possible exception of my sixteenth, but that is like comparing apples and oranges). All my young friends: Be not afraid of your thirties. They are magnificent.

I discovered this terrifically fun link-up last week through Sellabitmum (hilarious and gripping by turns; read her) – it’s over at The Pleated Poppy and it’s called “What I Wore Wednesday.” I’m linking up today with my birthday date outfit.

Photo credit: Farmer Boy, who is also my fashion consultant and has clear opinions about what I wear.

My entire outfit came off the clearance rack at Kohls and cost less than $50 total.

Shirt – Candy’s
Jeans – Mudd
Belt – Relic
Shoes – Dana Buchman

I was also carrying a cute metallic choral bag (Vera Wang) but forgot to hold it for the picture.

I included a new accessory – birthday present from my sister!

Sapphire and Topaz! HOLY BALLS how will I ever find her an equally awesome gift?!

I thought the kids might feel left out if we went out on my birthday, but My Farmer had planned ahead and pinned down their favorite sitters (they are sisters and not only do they play with the kids, they also clean the kitchen) so they were thrilled. They practically pushed me out the doorway. We went to our favorite romantic date place. Ironically, the first time we ever went there was my thirtieth birthday, the first time we went out alone to celebrate when the kids were little and we have loved it ever since. An example of why:

On the house in honor of my increasingly speedy aging. I ate the strawberry half. It was fantastic.

We had a great date – the only sad moment of my birthday this year was when it was over.

The company and the pinot grigio left nothing to be desired. And my outfit rocked.

A side note…

When we were in Denver, my sister-in-law took me to a wonderland I’d never seen before:

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Doesn’t it sound like it should be sung? Eye Key Ah!

I found this, which I decided I cannot live without:

Is that littlest spoon just SO FREAKING FAB?! I don’t just want to eat OFF of it, it looks so delicious I want to eat IT.

But then I forgot to buy them because I was too busy talking my sister (in-law) into impulse buying stemless wine glasses that she didn’t really need were truly great. And probably make Chardonnay taste even better.

Also, we didn’t have as much time as we needed because I hadn’t realized that Eye Key Ah! is the size of seventy-five city blocks. And two floors.

A false sense of security…

Every year, I stockpile gifts.  As sales come and go, as clearance racks (my addiction) dangle the perfect item for (insert name of relative here) I snatch up goodies and stash them in either (A) The hall closet, or (B) An undisclosed location in the pantry room of the basement (otherwise known as the pit of dispair).

My Farmer and I spent the entire weekend (I’m not kidding you – we were up past 11pm both nights, stopping only for meals and Mass) doing paperwork.  So my usual housework and weekend catch-up did not happen.  I didn’t file the school papers from last week or switch my binder out for the next, I didn’t get the laundry done or the hot-spots cleaned.  The floors are as dirty as they were on Friday.  But I wasn’t worried, because we are taking this week off of school, spending part of the holiday with my folks and part of it here with My Farmer’s family.  I could use the extra couple of days to tidy up the house, catch up on laundry, pack, etc.

 

In the midst of all this, I walked downstairs to find a few gift items I want to deliver to my family.  While down there, I took a quick inventory, knowing that I didn’t need much to be “GO” for Christmas.

 

Um.

 

After coming back upstairs and placing a beer in my shaking hand, I would like to announce that I have handed myself a major fail in the gift-ahead department.  I have tons of gifts for two people.  That leaves a few more people that I need to shop for.  OH, and those two people better not mind receiving dusty, years-old gifts because it’s going to take many holidays to empty their stash.  It’s simple to look at my gift hoard and see who is easy to buy for – because of course it’s the people who are impossible to find a gift for that I’m coming up empty on.  (You know, the poor people who get a mug or a shirt every. single. year.)

 

So, look out mug and shirt stores – I’m giving up one of my days this week to check out your clearance racks.  SHEESH I will probably have to pay *regular price* for some items! GAH!

 

Every year I plan on having an ‘even more special’ Christmas, with decorations up earlier, and the children MAKING all the tree ornaments out of oranges and salt dough and popcorn, and me presenting everyone with one-of-a-kind gifts I made myself…and every year I’m SO SURPRISED when Thanksgiving hits.

 

But I love this season so much.  And even though I’m shocked each year when I realize how little time I have left for preparation, I let go of my ideas for the holiday I envisioned and enjoy the holiday that is.  After all, it’s not about any of those things, really.  It’s about love.

 

And that, I have aplenty in my life.

 

That, and beer.

A great cookie recipe

I’ve been inspired to renew my commitment to healthier eating after reading my friend’s blog bread with honey.  I wanted to make a treat of some sort yesterday when I opened a new jar of our favorite peanut butter, and I found this:

 

Peanut Butter Cookies made with no sugar or animal fat.

 

The reviews are in and it’s thumbs up around the table here.  I cooked the first sheet a bit too long, so the texture was chalky.  The second set has a moister, more pleasing cookie-like softness without the dryness.  I’m also considering using applesauce in place of some of the maple syrup and oil next time (great suggestion from my mother-in-law).  Oh – and I used creamy peanut butter instead of chunky and that seemed to work out just fine.  Also I baked these at 325 in my convection oven instead of 350 – but I reduce the temperature on almost every recipe I bake so go with whatever your  oven usually does for you.

 

Keep in mind that you need to use REAL maple syrup.   If you’ve been buying imitation syrup (on the label it will say something like “with the taste of real maple syrup” and on the back it will list high-fructose corn syrup as the #1 ingredient) you are in for sticker shock.  As with most things that are not bad for you, it costs more because it is not made of a by-product or sustained by chemical preservatives and therefore requires a completely different (and usually more labor-intensive) method to bring it to your table.  This, in turn, means it costs more for you, the consumer, in monetary terms.

 

I like to think of it this way:  It is usually true that you get what you pay for.  I have found this to cross over to most aspects of life.  Whether you are paying in time, elbow grease, sweat, practice or dollars, the more you put in the better the results tend to be.  This often makes something you want to buy worth waiting and saving for in order to invest in something that will last.  The same is true with food – the more expensive foods will reap the greatest benefit and do the most for you.  Also, they usually taste much better once you get used to eating actual food instead of nutritionally-fortified boxed items.

 

You can buy pasta that is incredibly inexpensive, and it will keep you from starving.  However, your body will suffer from the poor nutrition, lack of fiber, and energy expended digesting something with so little return.  You can also buy really healthy pasta (our favorite is this kind) but it is going to cost a lot more because it has *real food* as the ingredients.  I could probably make extremely healthy pasta and it would be moan-worthy, but only after a lot of practice and time.  So I’m going with the box version for now and that is close enough.

 

Fruits and vegetables are another great example.  It is unarguable that a diet high in vegetables and fruits is the healthiest, and the more you consume raw, the better.  It’s like breastfeeding – indisputable fact that it is what a body needs and performs best with.  You can buy canned fruits and vegetables, and yes they are still nutritious though many of them have added salt or preservatives you probably want to avoid.  Frozen is a bit more expensive, but frozen vegetables retain more of their nutrients than canned vegetables do.  But the best for you?  Of course fresh vegetables are healthiest, and eating them raw is the best way to get every good thing you can from them.  So as you would guess, fresh vegetables not only cost the most, but if you are cooking them require a different level of involvement to prepare.  But it’s worth it.

 

I have also found that, since I began working to change how we were eating (around nine years ago) I have come around to the understanding that it may *seem* like a lot more work to make peanut butter cookies from scratch with all-natural ingredients – but actually it is not. It’s just a different way of doing things, and the more practice I have had with making meals from “whole” foods, the easier and simpler it has become.  Not to beat a dead horse, but once again it is like breastfeeding.  Our culture has a strange idea that bottle-feeding an infant is easier than breastfeeding.  In actual fact, nothing could be further from the truth – artificially feeding a baby is SO much more work, between purchasing and mixing the formula, washing and sterilizing all the equipment, not to mention the cost of all that formula and equipment!  I was fortunate that I saw other mothers breastfeeding, so I had an idea of how it would work for me.  Sit down (or sling up) and the only effort required on my part was lowering the flap on my nursing tank.  It required an investment of practice and frustration instead of dollars, but the payoff was astronomical.  (BTW kudos to all those mothers who pumped and bottle-fed.  It is all the work of formula-feeding, but with the medical benefits of breastfeeding.)

 

Feeding my family with simple recipes made from a variety of foods in as close to their natural state as possible – that’s my mantra and I’m sticking to it.  I hope your family enjoys these cookies as much as mine have!

Next Year

Couple of things coming down the pipe for next year.

 

First of all, I’ve been in touch with our local school district because Shooter is interested in taking band. Woot!  School principle was warm, helpful and full of information.  Shooter will be in fifth grade next year, the first year our district offers instrumental music.  Even better is that, if the schedule stays the same as this year, it will be at a great time for us. Shooter is psyched!

 

Secondly, looking at some different curriculum for next year.  I love Sonlight, I truly do.  But I have too many hats on right now and I need something that removes every single bit of work as far as lesson planning.  It is something I enjoy and I think I’m pretty good at, but it is going to be worth the money for the time I need to devote to the farm jobs I’ve been working more on this past year.  I have been using the Sonlight Core 2 this year, and patched together Language Arts, Handwriting, Science, Phonics and Math for each child.  We are looking at this curriculum (which would do all of that work for me) but are currently undecided until we have a complete diagnosis from Farmer Boy’s LD screenings.

 

I am still so attached to the Sonlight Cores that I’m considering finding a way to get a used or incomplete Core 3 anyway so we can include the read-alouds on American history.  Or I may tap into some gift money I’ve put back from my parents and just buy the thing.  I’ve been so looking forward to it!

 

Updates to follow.