FUN FRIDAY MISSION

Okay, you readers. I am giving you an actual assignment. Here’s the dealio:

I’ve not really had a bad day or week – so this is not complaining. Two of my kids fell ill enough to require doctor’s visits, numerous drugs, humidifiers, stock in tissue companies and lots of thermometer use. We were trying to start school this morning and I kept noticing an odd smell…it was doggie diarreah. All. Over. The. Carpet. Aside from your basic adult life worries (what if I get pregnant/have to move/someone breaks their arm/the washing machine craps out/I never get rid of this whore-house wallpaper?) that’s not much.

Also? We had no apples.

But we went to the store (yay! apples!) and the library. The library makes everyone in my family stupid-happy. Especially after Mom has been hollering at you all day to STAY OUT OF THE LIVING ROOM because there are wet spots from the poop fallout.

But it wasn’t a bad day. Everyone felt better than they have since we came home from our Denver trip, we completed school, I’d been decluttering like mad this week. AND now we had apples and fresh books.

When I got home, this was in a package on my doorstep:

Do you remember my post about Ih Kay Uh (see comments for explanation)?

Here is the note that came with the package:

My Dearest Farm Hooker -

I couldn’t resist getting you these when I was at Ikea last night. I too made a new discovery – Ikea on a weekday evening – true bliss – NO people!! It Rocked!!

Hope these bring you many years of happiness! Love you!!

xoxo -
City Hooker

Now, you might think it’s all offensive to call someone hooker, but if you read Rants From Mommyland you know it totally is like calling someone a blood sister.

I haven’t seen this friend of mine in years – we became friends when we were both single, living paycheck-to-paycheck in tiny apartments with borrowed-from-storage furniture and cats. We worked together for years and she was one of those friends I never felt anything but love and loyalty toward. Until she moved, but that was just me being whiny.

I can’t tell you what it felt like to receive an entirely inappropriate and undeserved gift – for no reason what so ever. Except she was thinking about me.

I probably drank more coffee in the presence of this woman than I will in the rest of my life. I told her things I’ve never told anyone else.

We don’t really stay in close touch anymore – but we still love each other.

Is there someone like that in your life? Who you love and miss? Or someone who you KNOW needs something?

Pack up some spoons (or tea or soap or something she/he would like for no particular reason) and send it, hooker.

Send me emails (closeenoughblog@gmail.com) or make comments here about what you’ve done, and I’ll put together a post about it.

And please don’t make me look like an @ss by not accepting this mission!

Kisses, hookers.

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Childhood Friendship

One of the biggest concerns people have about homeschooling is socialization. It was something we were focused on when we transitioned to educating at home. It is one of the first questions asked or things mentioned when I talk to people about homeschooling. We did a round table discussion about it at Growing Your Homeschool.

By definition, my children are well socialized. They interact with a large variety of people on a daily basis, and I find it to be extra nice that they are interacting with individuals who are vastly different in age and circumstance (and don’t all wear the same brand of clothing or make fun of people who aren’t in the same activities).

But there’s nothing like having other kids for buddies. My children each have friends they have made through our days in regular school, our Church, or classes and lessons they have taken. Still, when asked who their best friend is (don’t get me started on that – it’s a silly and isolating concept) they will give their sibling’s names.

And the bond they have with their cousins is intense on a level that is a joy to see. They don’t live in the same town, so they see each other six or seven times a year at regular intervals. They range in age from twelve to six. They don’t live together and have the battles that normal siblings do, but they are tied by blood. It is a blessing in our lives and we are so thankful. I know the kids are too.

Shooter taking a photo with his ipod of some of his best friends at the Denver National Stock Show this past weekend.

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To My Mommy Friends

Do you have little ones? Then please read this.

If you are like me and spend your days mothering older kids, it is an inspiring and worthwhile read. It will take you back, help you remember how hard you have worked for your current perspective, encourage you to keep working as hard as you can.

Parenting is the most difficult and worthwhile thing I have ever done. Here is to each of us finding the “right way” for our families.

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A side note…

When we were in Denver, my sister-in-law took me to a wonderland I’d never seen before:

I K E A

Doesn’t it sound like it should be sung? Eye Key Ah!

I found this, which I decided I cannot live without:

Is that littlest spoon just SO FREAKING FAB?! I don’t just want to eat OFF of it, it looks so delicious I want to eat IT.

But then I forgot to buy them because I was too busy talking my sister (in-law) into impulse buying stemless wine glasses that she didn’t really need were truly great. And probably make Chardonnay taste even better.

Also, we didn’t have as much time as we needed because I hadn’t realized that Eye Key Ah! is the size of seventy-five city blocks. And two floors.

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Weekend Getaway

One of the things we like about homeschooling is the flexibility it can offer our family. If the weather is interfering with farming, we are free to leave town. This past weekend, it was too cold to applicate fertilizer with our strip-till implement.

And my brother-in-law had tickets to the Denver National Stock Show!

So – we split!

We had a great time, thanks to the hospitality of my husband’s family.

We saw all sorts of fun things at the show.

I told My Farmer I could have spent most of the day in the sale barn – if you’ve never been to a livestock sale you are missing out, people. It is so fun.

Shooter trying to figure out who is bidding on the champion bison.

We watched some of the stock dog competition – I was frustrated that they did not announce before it began that the crowd should BE QUIET in order to allow the dogs to hear every command from their handler (my kids knew, of course, because I’m bossy and told them). I’m sure I wasn’t nearly as frustrated as the handlers, though.

It was a big arena, and the crowd sure made the sheep nervous.

We walked through the stockyards and saw all kinds of marvelous things (like yaks!), but Cowgirl felt this was the best part:

She bought the pony with her own money, and creatively named it 'Pink.'

We had a great time at the Pro-Rodeo Saturday evening. I really must say that I don’t understand the people that protest rodeos. The stock I saw must be the happiest horses and bulls on earth – they are treated like kings, fed like royalty, and live like free animals – except with fantastic medical care. They were gorgeous, powerful and breathtaking. I never once saw a look of fear from any of them (and my brother-in-law scored swank front-row seats next to the chutes, so I would know)! Also, it always makes me cry when the gorgeous cowgirl comes streaking in on a fast horse with a huge American Flag streaming around the arena. The National Anthem is moving even when it’s poorly done (sorry, poofy-haired lady that sang it).

So God Bless America – and cowboys (salivate). Have you ever been to a rodeo? If so, what was your impression?

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In Our School – Core work

In our homeschool, we have been using Sonlight core curriculum. This is our third year using Sonlight Cores. Each year, I have looked again for what might be a better fit for us, and each year I have come back to Sonlight. There are lots of wonderful programs out there, and several curriculums I would love to try. Sonlight has just fit so well with our family’s learning styles and the teaching goals My Farmer and I have for our children.

A Sonlight Core incorporates History, Geography and Social Studies into one program that can be adapted to a large age-range of students. This year we are working on Core D, American History Year One.

We spent the beginning third of the year learning about pre-European America. We are still studying tribes of the America’s, and I have appreciated how honest this history course is. There is no mincing of words about the cultural clashes and European motives.

The kids enjoyed the section where we learned about different explorers and the ‘discovery’ and colonization of the America’s.

More recently, we have been studying Colonial America, the thirteen original British Colonies and the beginning of the Revolutionary War. Some of the children’s Favorite books in this section have been “The Sign of The Beaver,” by Elizabeth George Speare, “Johnny Tremain,” by Esther Forbes, and “What’s The Big Idea, Ben Franklin?” by Jean Fritz.

After reading Johnny Tremain, the children could all identify where Boston is on the map (though Shooter could already do that), as well as explain when and the basic concepts of why the Revolutionary War began (and I mean the exact date and place, as in April 19, 1775 on Lexington Green). This all happened because they were listening to and discussing interesting historical novels, because they wanted to, not because they were studying for a test.

Here is a picture the boys made of the colonist’s militia at Lexington while we were reading:

We have started reading “Toliver’s Secret” and the children are breathless to hear what happens next! This is a much less measurable way to educate. I do not test their knowledge of historical events we have studied or quiz the geography facts we have learned about. This can be an uncomfortable thing to hear and a difficult transition to make if you have been exposed only to institutional schooling. But it has been a wonderful way for my children to learn and retain their history, and it has been a wonderful path to discussions about WHY these things happened – which I find to be the most important lesson history can teach us.

In Our School – Journaling

I have been asking the kids to keep a regular journal this year. It is definitely something I’m going to keep doing. They enjoy it, often work on it while we are reading out loud together, and have an opportunity to get something on paper they care about or are thinking about while also working on writing. They are really too personal to publish, but the pictures the children drew during my mother-in-law’s hospitalization and death were so touching.

Here are some recent entries:

By our Little Cowgirl.

Shooter describing the events that led up to a late arrival to fifth grade band at our public school.

Here is Farmer Boy's journal, where he and his phonics tutor are roasting marshmallows over her stove top.

It has also given me an opportunity to see the children’s progress as the year moves along. Farmer boy switches between cursive and print, which is typical for someone making that transition – and even more so for someone who is dyslexic. He prefers to list the things that are happening in the day to come rather than write about something that has already happened. This is also typical of dyslexia (finding comfort in the routine he has found to work for him – making a list of things he knows are going to happen, and are frequently the same words).

It is heartening that, since we started school again after Christmas, he has been adding some new panache to his entries. He couldn’t resist writing about his black-felt dress cowboy hat from Santa. Often his entries will include very little writing and a detailed drawing, or enough writing that he is too tired to mess with the drawing. It is so important that I understand and respect his dysgraphia in this area. I do always insist on some writing, but I’ve never mentioned it if he doesn’t include a picture.

Last year, we used the Draw Your World program Draw Write Now, which we all liked, was lots of fun and included great art instruction. I would still recommend that program, but I’m going to keep my children working on free journaling because of the creativity and open-ended writing they embrace in this circumstance. Usually, lack of clear instruction and “write whatever you want” makes my boys want to cry…but they love journaling.

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In Our School – Today

Welcome to a day with our household! Each day is different, but I wanted you to see what many of our days our like. We front-load our weeks, so we are busiest Monday – Wednesday. Thursdays have no afternoon activities and Fridays are our lightest academically as well as being void of scheduled activities. This is what happened at our house on Monday:

6:00 am – I’m up (I’m a morning person – big time – so don’t think this as necessary for homeschooling!) and workout. I often run with a friend or go to the gym, but I tried a workout video today. After I shower and dress, I read a few blogs. My Farmer and I have a cup of coffee together and watch the news.

7:00 to 7:15 am – My Farmer is heading out the door and wakes any children that are not already awake to say goodbye. Depending on the morning and the child, they may come out of their rooms already dressed and ready to go or they may shuffle out and lay on the couch, snoozing for a while longer. I make breakfast and visit with anyone who is awake enough.

7:30 am – We start school with breakfast; I don’t have a dress code so anyone who is still in their pajamas is welcome. We usually begin our day with prayer and the Pledge of Allegiance. I read to the kids from our current historical novel while they eat. When they are finished, they clear their dishes and color, work in their journal or they may move to the floor to work on legos or another quiet activity while they listen.

Want to read more? Head on over to Growing Your Homeschool, where I am sharing today what school looks like at our house. This week and next, the ladies at GYH are giving us a look into their families lives. You will find the rest of my day there, as well as a bunch of my typical rambling!

In Our School – Language Arts

In perfect contradiction to our experience with math, we have used a wide variety of language arts products in our years of homeschooling.

I wonder if part of this is because language arts is MY THING, whereas math is NOT. I found a math program where I feel secure in the methods, and my children like it. Viola! At first I thought I was pickier about language arts because I love it so much.

But upon reflection, I realize it is more because my children all fit well with the math program we happened to try our first year, whereas they all have greatly different needs and abilities to consider when it comes to language arts.

I did find an excellent fit for Shooter, again by lucky accident and because I read tons of reviews, when I chose Handwriting Without Tears his first year. We are still using it now. It incorporates lots of grammar along with being simple and fun.

In case you couldn’t see it in the first picture:

Ahem.

We also use the Sonlight language arts program as an attachment to his literature. His copywork, grammar gems and writing activities are usually directly related to his reading – which is usually directly related to the period in history we are studying (this year it’s American history). Shooter uses the advanced readers. I love that Sonlight has different levels that match with a core in order to give a child work that will be challenging as well as applicable for them.

Shooter has worked on factual writing more this year – including outlines and a research paper. Language arts is probably his least favorite subject, but I wouldn’t go so far as to say he doesn’t like it. He likes it unless it involves ‘freestyle’ writing without enough parameters for his analytical brain.

Farmer Boy is a whole-nother ball of wax! Last spring, we finally screened for dyslexia and discovered he is dyslexic and mildly dysgraphic. Almost everything he does in school is modified because of this different way of learning. I am so happy to be able to do this for him without him comparing himself to same-age peers. He is hard on everyone, but especially on himself. It’s a gift for him to be working so well and having so little frustration this year.

I’ve been using the Sonlight Readers 2 and language arts program for Farmer Boy. He has been doing so well in his Alphabet Phonics tutoring and it is really showing in his reading level. He is *excited* to read his assignments this year, brags about how many pages he has read so far, and even read IN FRONT OF my entire family at Christmas this year. I had to leave the room because it made me cry – he refused to read in front of anyone (including his siblings and father) but me until the past few months.

Although I use the Sonlight language arts planner as a guide, he does most of his grammar work with his lovely tutor, Miss R, and I create spelling lists and grammar work based on what they have been doing in tutoring. He is being taught cursive handwriting by Miss R as part of his program, so he is receiving a different method of instruction than Handwriting Without Tears gave Shooter. Farmer Boy has been working on translating print into cursive, and high (tow-truck) connections:

Little Cowgirl is spending a lot of time on phonics this year, cementing what she learned in her kindergarten-level studies last year. We are using Saxon Phonics for homeschool, which I recommend. A lot. It has been a good fit for us, incorporates every learning style and is especially good for instructing dyslexic children (Cowgirl is probably mildly dyslexic according to her screening this summer). It can be broken into many different sections throughout the day or can be done all in one 45-minute setting (lots of it doesn’t happen while your student is sitting, though, it’s an active program).

She is also working her way through the Handwriting Without Tears Printing Book and likes the readers she is using. We found the readers for sale at a used curriculum book fair – they are public school castaways and are in terrific condition. Here is an activity she completed after finishing a recent story in the reading book:

These are the clues she wrote on the back of the page.

In case you can’t read her clues, they are as follows:
1. it is a bug.
2. I migrate.
3. I am poisonous, so do not eat me.

Here is her drawing on the front side:

A Monarch Butterfly!

Although I *always* want my children to do more creative writing, they either (a) hate it with a burning passion, or (b) aren’t ready to do it unless it involves dictating their story to me. So, although I do insist on a bit of it, they are mostly doing copy work and reading really excellent literature, which is probably most important to me. Being consistently exposed to good writing and being given the proper tools to employ, they will have the ability to communicate well in written form should they ever need or want to.